Rude Towards You?

What do you do when someone behaves very rudely towards you?

* Get upset
* React rudely back
* Get frustrated
* Run away and avoid the person or situation
* Blame the person
* Preach to the person

None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what are the
options? See rude behaviour in this light:

* It indicates the intensity of their commitment
* It indicates their stress and insensitivity
* It projects the upbringing of the person
* It shows a behavioural pattern
* It shows lack of knowledge
* It shows lack of observation of the mind and its sensations
* It shows you behaviour to avoid
* It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
* It strengthens your mind
* It reveals the love that you are as unconditional

The next time when someone is rude to you, just give back a broad
smile. If you can digest their rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.

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